"Girls, when they become women, either prepare to turn into chickens, or turn their lover into a chicken..." - Mircea Eliade
You may find the above quote true in whole, in part or not at all...but today I choose to write about the relevance and importance of women returning to the feminine energy and understanding the impact it has on her life and those around her when she enters and it remains in the masculine energy.
What does it mean to be in feminine energy?
• to allow yourself to be vulnerable, to ask for and accept help, to expose your emotions, feelings, experiences,
• cultivate tenderness and grace through words, body posture, clothing, light make-up, discreet perfume,
• avoid male haircuts,
• speak softly,
• give time to your passions, take care of your body and mind,
• be understanding and show love.
Manifestation of male energy up to the stage of castration!
• YOU are the one who plans/arranges meetings with your partner, places to go out, time, etc... out of the desire not to get lost, to stay alone.
• “Lasă-mă pe mine, știu mai bine decât tine!”,
• YOU decide everything that happens in the house, the man just brings the money,
• go to a restaurant and YOU order for your partner, YOU ask for the bill, YOU pay,
• criticize your spouse/partner and children in public,
• impose your own opinions, desires and needs,
• you turn into a hyperprotective woman, you tell your partner or child everything they have to do,
• YOU are superior and bring insulting words to men (no women, you can't rely on them...).
She successfully combines the roles of daughter, mother, friend, partner by being present in the feminine energy! Direct all your energy towards developing the qualities you possess, be unique and authentic, be creative and spontaneous, radiate warmth and energy through all your pores. Be a woman!
And don't forget... Femininity is an art that is cultivated!
Psychologist Carmen Mariana Ardeleanu
