\"Parents are nothing but big kids until their kids drag them into adulthood (usually with a lot of fuss and a lot of screaming)\" Stephen King
\nIt is almost impossible, whether we are talking about an adult or a child, that he has never screamed.<\/p>\n
Why?
\nBecause screaming expresses strong emotions of joy, but mostly anger and frustration.<\/p>\n
What are the effects of screaming?
\n\u25e6 Difficulty concentrating
\n\u25e6 Anxiety
\n\u25e6 Withdrawal
\n\u25e6 Behavioral problems
\n\u25e6 Low self-esteem
\n\u25e6 Greater risk of depression
\n\u25e6 Sleep problems.<\/p>\n
How can we control screaming?
\n\u25e6 By clearly expressing what is disturbing, namely the behavior and not the child himself.
\n\u25e6 Think before you act.
\n\u25e6 Wait until you are calm, practice relaxation techniques.
\n\u25e6 Admit that sometimes you yell more than you'd like.
\n\u25e6 Adjust your expectations according to the child's age.
\n\u25e6 Follow the rules you set.
\n\u25e6 Pay attention to the situation that makes you scream.
\n\u25e6 Builds a solid bond with the child.<\/p>\n
How to be a better parent?
\n\u25e6 Let the child make mistakes
\n\u25e6 Teach him values \u200b\u200band not rules
\n\u25e6 Encourages creativity
\n\u25e6 Don't discipline inappropriate behavior, explain why it's wrong
\n\u25e6 Praise the child and not just his actions
\n\u25e6 Don't be hard on yourself and forgive your mistakes that are temporary and don't identify you
\n\u25e6 Trust your instincts, live for and with your family and not for others
\n\u25e6 Ask for help and support, you need breaks for yourself and your life partner
\n\u25e6 Be a role model and apologize when you yell
\n\u25e6 Show love whenever you get the chance.<\/p>\n
The parent sometimes feels overwhelmed by negative emotions and anger. However, yelling can be a healthy part of a relationship when criticism, defensiveness, and contempt are not present.<\/p>\n
Avoid unwanted behavior by making eye contact, stand face to face with the child and put your hand on his shoulder, this way you will connect with each other and achieve results in the requested tasks without conflict, refusal or yelling.<\/p>\n
Screaming raises walls, assertive communication unites souls!
\nCarmen Mariana Ardeleanu, psychologist<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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