\"Divorce is not really a tragedy. It is a tragedy to decide to stay in an unhappy marriage and teach your children the wrong things about love. No one ever died from divorce.\" \u2013Jennifer Weiner<\/p>\n
Divorce is a long process and sometimes it can be arduous, experienced intensely and with great difficulty, especially when, following the marriage, there are also children, and they are involved in the conflict.<\/p>\n
An important first stage, when the divorce intervenes, is the preparation of the child. He is gently told in the presence of both parents the separation that will follow, he is assured of their continued love and permanence, that he is not abandoned and that he has the unconditional support of both parents.<\/p>\n
\u00cen astfel de momente, copiii sunt vulnerabili, tr\u0103iesc mult mai intens \u0219i brutal separarea de un membru al familiei. Indiferent de v\u00e2rsta la care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 divor\u021bul, ace\u0219tia sunt pu\u0219i \u00een situa\u021bia de a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bi timpul cu cei doi p\u0103rin\u021bi, casa, prietenii, activit\u0103\u021bile, moment c\u00e2nd \u00een sufeltul s\u0103u apare o lupt\u0103, un conflict interior major fa\u021b\u0103 de care nu \u0219tie cum s\u0103 ac\u021bioneze.
\nIubirea copilului este necondi\u021bionat\u0103, egal\u0103, pentru ambii p\u0103rin\u021bi, el nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te \u0219i nu poate s\u0103 fac\u0103 diferen\u021be \u00eentre cei doi, \u00eei este dificil s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 accepte separarea ce are loc \u00een via\u021ba de familie. Deseori copilul \u00ee\u0219i asuma vina separ\u0103rii, consider\u0103 c\u0103 el este cauza conflictului.<\/p>\n
Another aspect that should not be neglected is the fact that the child does not become the confidant, the one to whom emotions, grievances are shared and a coalition against the other partner is not built with him.
\nIn the context of a divorce, the parent becomes the child's point of support and balance to avoid the child's violent behavior, social withdrawal, anxiety, depression or irritability, blame.
\nThe more the relationship between the two partners remains balanced, there is communication, there is no criticism of the other partner, the rules the child was taught are still respected, the routines are maintained, the easier the child will overcome the changes that occur as a result of a separation.<\/p>\n
Family is in your soul! YOU are the family!
\nPsychologist Carmen Mariana Ardeleanu<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201d Divortul nu este cu adevarat o tragedie. O tragedie este s\u0103 decizi s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i \u00eentr-o c\u0103snicie nefericit\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi \u00eenve\u021bi copiii lucruri gre\u0219ite despre dragoste. Nimeni nu a murit niciodat\u0103 din cauza divor\u021bului.\u201d \u2013 Jennifer Weiner Divor\u021bul este un proces lung \u0219i uneori poate fi anevoios, tr\u0103it intens \u0219i cu mare dificultate, \u00een special, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1883,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articole"],"yoast_head":"\n